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December 2024

“When I was five years old, I was thrust on the stage dressed in a choir robe, wearing a red bow, and told to sing 'Away in the Manger' before an audience of 200 people. Thus began my music career,” remembers Sara Evinger, a member of the Outlandish Ashby Village neighborhood, co-coordinator of the Science and Ideas interest group with her husband Joe, and a volunteer with the Special Events team.

Sara learned to play the piano on an old upright that her father bought when she was six years old and then learned to play the flute. Those skills qualified her to be an accompanist for her church’s choir, and a member of the All City Orchestra and All City School Band in her Indiana home town. 

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“Then one magical day, when I had just finished 7th grade, my father said we were moving to Paris. I began studying piano seriously in Paris, sang with adult choirs, and when I was in the 12th grade, started a children’s choir, my first conducting experience.” 


Sara returned to The States to attend Indiana University where she majored in foreign languages and minored in voice. She met Joe, her husband of 53 years, when she was a freshman. He moved to California for graduate school but returned to Indiana and swept her off her feet. 


Since living in the Bay Area, Sara has been a soloist and conductor with a number of choirs, was a member of Operatunity, a San Francisco opera company, hosted a North Oakland Village singing group at her home, and led two Holiday Sing-Alongs for North Oakland Village. “These are always a great outreach opportunity, a chance to recruit new members, and to have a lot of fun.”


For Sara, singing is an other-worldly experience. “When you are giving something to an audience, whether it’s interpreting a role, sharing a thought, a poem, or a religious text, it flows through you. And when I play a piano solo, I almost don’t feel the bench or the keys – the music just goes through me.”


Sara Evinger

Ashby Village Member and Volunteer


August 2024

This lively foursome of Ashby Village members and volunteers meets once a month to play Bridge at the Ashby Village office. Here, they each share what brings them to the game and why gathering together is meaningful.

"No family gathering was complete without a call to 'get the cards' and a rousing game of Bridge would begin. We were taught as children to play the game as the adults never knew when a fourth player would be needed. What is it about the game that is so appealing? It calls for a sharp memory to keep track of what cards are played and by whom, it requires knowing the conventions to use when bidding your contract and then deducing what cards your opponents might be holding. These skills, coupled with a gambling instinct, make Bridge a stimulating, challenging, and timeless game."

Elaine Mannon
Ashby Village Member

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(L-R) Elaine Mannon, Jody Keller, Linda Rose, Ellen Carlton

"When COVID hibernation ended, I set about to revive in-person Bridge at Ashby Village. It was a slow process finding people who wanted to play, but we now have a regular foursome of members and volunteers who play on the first Tuesday of the month at AshbyVillage, plus a sprinkling of people who have indicated interest. So far, we haven’t gotten a second foursome going, but we invite you to join us. I come from a card and boardgame playing family and began playing Bridge in earnest in college. I love the game and consider it a lot like life: you play the hand you’re dealt to the best of your ability. Also, you meet wonderful people!


Jody Keller

Ashby Village Member



"I love to play Bridge because it keeps my mind active. No two hands are alike. Playing with the Ashby Village group is special because it’s a friendly game and we learn from each other – even if some of us have played a long time."


Linda Rose

Ashby Village Volunteer



"With four sisters in the family, we were a natural Bridge foursome. Despite my mother buying us an instructional Charles Goren Bridge tablecloth to put over our card table, only one of us really learned to play. And it wasn’t me. I retired a couple of years ago and when I saw Jody’s post about Bridge in the Ashby Village newsletter, I grasped my opportunity and responded. I was quick to tell Jody, Linda, and Elaine that I am an aspiring bridge player. They’ve been incredibly welcoming to me. They’re great players and generous teachers. We play our hands in a way that allows us to review bidding and strategies after each hand. So at last I’m learning to play Bridge. Now when I think about the word Bridge, I think it means connecting with others, not only communicating with your partner in this convention-filled abstract Bridge language, but making new connections and new friends."


Ellen Carlton

Ashby Village Volunteer


June 2024

How should we respond to a person we care about who has become critically ill? “The relationship matters more than the actual words used ... Just picking up the phone and saying ‘hi’ is so reassuring and warm. Rather than offering prescriptions or fears to others, respect their boundaries and allow your love to show through.”

 

Susan Halpern

Ashby Village Member

Psychotherapist and Author

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Susan always knew she wanted to work with people. “My mother was a clinical psychologist who inspired my curiosity about people and their inner workings. Seeing her work with homesick kids at the 8-week summer camp my parents ran in Canada, sent me on my way but I wanted my own path.”  


She was a psychotherapist for 16 years then co-founded a non-profit to develop permanent housing for homeless and mentally ill people in New York City. “After my diagnosis of lymphoma in 1995, I returned to psychotherapy and led groups to support people with cancer.”  


After participating in Commonwealth Cancer Help Program in Bolinas, California, Michael Lerner, the co-founder, asked Susan to join a new organization modeled after Commonwealth called Smith Farm Center for the Healing Arts. “I also founded the New York Cancer Help Program, a support group for people with cancer, which served multicultural women in New York City and still continues.”  


Susan and her husband moved to California in 2001 to be closer to their children and grandchild. In 2004, she published The Etiquette of Illness – What to Say When You Can’t Find the Words, that aims to expand the readers' options rather than giving them a blueprint. Her second book, Finding the Words: Candid Conversations with Loved Ones, was published in 2006. Susan joined Ashby Village in 2023 and is currently exploring the possibility of forming a support group focused on “Finding our Way with Giving and Receiving Care as We Age.”  Susan’s underlying motivation to serve others endures as she continues to pursue ways in which she can share her experience and wisdom.


May 2024


“I have always created stories. When I was in high school, in history classes, I created stories to help me remember the details of that country’s history, my characters’ lives reflecting what was happening in their world at that particular historical time. My Master’s thesis from San Francisco State was a collection of short stories, but somewhere along the path into adulthood, I switched to writing poetry, and over the years, I have had poetry published in publications such as the Atlanta Review, The Comstock Review, Common Ground Review, Sierra Songs & Descants, Pinyon, The Journal of the American Medical Association, Cradle Song, 75 Poems on Retirement, and two poems in the recently published Wild Crone Wisdom. I’ve lately gone back to writing short stories, many of which deal with older women.  


“About the time of the start of the pandemic, I signed up for Amy Gorman’s Ashby Village writing group. Topics she gave us included subjects such as our relationships with our families (I wrote of stuffing my baby doll in the waste basket), and employment (I was part of the first teachers’ strike in California—books for the kids, not salaries for us teachers!). Amy finished the class some time ago, but four of us decided to continue on our own, creating our own topics as we went. This exploration led us into our family histories—an endeavor a bit like finding and putting together the pieces of a jigsaw puzzle. I realize now we’re all influenced by our past…not just our own but our parents’, and grandparents’ and great grandparents‘ past. What I am is the result of what they endured and lived through.” 


Claudette Sigg

Ashby Village Member

Writer and Dancer

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Claudette Sigg was born in San Francisco in 1934. The early part of Claudette’s elementary schooling occurred during the Second World War, and with San Francisco being a potential target of Japanese submarines off shore, her father moved his family to San Carlos for safety. After graduating from Sequoia High School in Redwood City, she went to San Mateo Junior College, and from there transferred to U.C. Berkeley to get a degree in History. “When I graduated, I knew I needed to get a job, but I also was aware I had no practical skills to sell, so I took a stenography class and brushed up on my typing skills.” The truth was she “felt barely competent” to be employed by anyone. Nevertheless, her skills were assessed to be adequate enough for her to get an office job, which made it possible for her to save enough money to return to Cal to get her teaching credential and her M.A.


It was at Cal, as a graduate student, that she had her first “Me Too” moment. Her thesis advisor apparently thought that female teaching assistants were available for additional services, and after being chased around the desk by an amorous middle aged professor, she declined to write her assigned chapter of his next book, and she transferred to San Francisco State. She held three jobs simultaneously while there: graduate student working towards her Masters Degree, secretary in the literacy office, and instructor in a “bonehead” English class, as they were known then. She ultimately received a Masters in English Language Arts with an emphasis on Creative Writing. A selection of her poems include Cherries in Winter, Messages between the Living and the Dead, Balloons in the Sky, Intensive Care.


Her first and only job interview occurred at Richmond High. The principal asked the usual questions—and then asked her to write an essay. “Now that was something I could do!” she thought. “Even before I got home, he had sent me a telegram offering me a position.” And that began her nearly 30-year career of teaching English classes in Richmond, California.


After retiring, Claudette became a docent at the Oakland Museum of California, first in the History Gallery, then in the Art Gallery, and finally in the Natural Sciences Gallery, thus becoming one of the very few “triple” docents at the museum. While she enjoyed doing children’s tours, particularly those that included the three galleries, such as “Indian Life” and “The Gold Rush,” she especially liked doing “Highlight Tours” for adults, tours which covered all three galleries under a unifying theme. However, it was in the special exhibition, “No Spectators—The Art of Burning Man,” that Claudette first met members of Ashby Village.


Dancing in one form or another has been one of her passions since childhood. While in high school and college, she took classes at the San Francisco Ballet School, but she suppressed her love of dancing when she met her husband at San Francisco State. Dancing in any form was not one of his passions. Returning to some form of dance was her first major decision after their separation.

 

After her divorce, Claudette wandered into a Scottish country dance class. Scottish country dancing and Scottish step dancing are similar to ballet: both use the same terminology and make use of some of the same basic figures. After a couple of years, Claudette was invited to join the Dunsmuir Dancers, a performing group in the Bay Area. Later, after visiting Scotland to get her certificate to teach Scottish Country Dancing, she formed her own performing group, The New World Scottish Dancers, which emphasized the role of Scots in California from the Gold Rush to the present as exhibited through dance. She submitted a country dance, “Moment of Truth,” to an international competition sponsored by the Royal Scottish Country Dance Society, and her dance was one of the very few that was accepted and published by the Society. Today both her country dances and step dances are danced around the world. (See Scottish Country Dance Capelthwaite (Reel) and Ladies' Step Dance Bridget's Suggestion)


February 2024


“When I was growing up, tennis was the appropriate sport for girls – not the football that I played with the boys in the field where kids gathered in my suburban Chicago neighborhood.


It’s harder for adults to learn new things. They give up because they can’t ‘get it’ right away. Kids, on the other hand, are used to learning every day and have no assumptions that they know it already.

 

Get out and PLAY pickleball. It’s a great way to connect with people. Give yourself the gift of play. You’ll smile the whole time – guaranteed!”


Ellen Carlton

Ashby Village Volunteer

and Avid Tennis and Pickleball Player




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Ellen Carlton learned to play tennis when she was 12 years old. She accompanied a friend who was taking lessons, picked up her balls, paid attention to the instructor, and practiced with her friend after the lesson.

 

“I was always the fastest runner in my class and being able to get to things quickly, made tennis a great match. I was also attracted to the strategy of planning a couple of shots in advance – just like chess. The complexity of the game appealed to me. Not only mastering racket skills, but applying geometry to the court and bisecting the angle of return shots.” 


By the time Ellen was 16 years old, she was the Club Champion and was told that in a year she could get national ranking. But she was ready to be a teenager and did not pursue her tennis.


She earned a degree in Criminology at U.C. Berkeley, but decided her real love was physical education and went back to Berkeley and earned a Ph.D. in Physical Education. 


She taught coaches, instructors, and athletes how to learn and teach sports at Sonoma State College for 32 years. And she took up tennis once again, becoming a certified teaching professional in her 20s and achieving national ranking in her 50s.  


“Now that I am retired, I play tennis a couple of times week and pickleball once or twice a week. Pickleball really appeals to me. I like learning something new and while I can build on my tennis skills, the strategy of the game is different. Pickleball is played on the half of the tennis court closest to the net, uses a light whiffle ball, and a paddle with a short handle.”



More and more public pickleball courts are being built. Check your city's recreational department to find classes and locations of courts. And, as Ellen says, “Above all, allow yourself to be a beginner!”


November 2023


"Among my many volunteer efforts over the years, working with HICAP (Health Insurance Counseling and Advocacy Program) once a week for eight years is my favorite. I really like helping people figure out what to do about health care in retirement because we don’t have single payer system that other civilized countries have.  It’s complicated and people don’t realize the options they have. 


I have everything I need. I’ve never gone hungry or been homeless; I’ve always had healthcare – so many things so many people don’t have. There are 13 million people on MediCal in California – half of the population. I like helping other people. People need help, and if we can do it, we should.


It’s a way to leave the world a better place than when you entered it, the Jewish religion’s tenet Tikkun olam (repair the world in Hebrew)."


Sara Cleveland

Ashby Village Member & Volunteer




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Ashby Village member Sara Cleveland started helping seniors and the disabled deal with Medicare issues eight years ago after her husband died. It’s a passion for her – helping other people. So much so that even during most of the pandemic, when she could have done the work remotely from her home in Richmond, she drove to Pleasant Hill so she could interact with experts and give seniors the best information as she counseled them over the phone. 


“It shouldn’t be so complicated. People don’t realize what options they have. They don’t realize what happens if they don’t get enrolled on time. There can be penalties. Many people can’t do it by themselves. Everyone gets a big book, Medicare and You, and it’s a lot of information. Even if you know a bit about the options you have, it’s not easy. My clients were really in need. I offer to do the research, go down and talk to the MediCal people and get a pretty good indication of what the client has. Then I get back in touch with them to explain it all."

 

Through her volunteer work with Contra Costa HICAP (Health Insurance Counseling and Advocacy Program), Sara has learned about a number of programs people don’t usually know about that can help, like 250% Working Disabled, which can provide the lowest cost for drugs and in-home supportive services. “It can be a life saver. I refer people to that program whenever I can,” she says. She credits the training and mentoring she received for helping her help others, as well as having access to the SHIP (State Health Insurance Assistance Program) confidential phone line. She even loves the Contra Costa HICAP website.


With all the pleasure she gets from helping, she’s decided it’s time to retire. She’ll continue volunteering this year until open enrollment is over. “I’m close to being the oldest counselor. I’ll miss them, but it’s time to go.”


October 2023


"I began to write in an effort to make sense of my life. My marriage was at a crossroads and my thoughts were trapped inside my head, spiraling around and around, with no resolution in sight. Once I let those thoughts flow onto the page in a linear fashion, a way forward started to emerge. Thus began my habit of journaling 40 years ago.


I was having powerful dreams at that time. My Jungian therapist helped me unravel them. He urged me to write poems to further understand the messages that were emerging from my unconscious. The healing aspect of writing is almost alchemical: turning lead into gold. 


These dreams and poems became the inspiration for my book, I Sing With a New Voice, a Journey Shaped by Dreams and Poems, published 10 years ago in 2013.


I now write haibuns, which are short prose pieces followed by a haiku."


Elaine Mannon

Ashby Village Member and Volunteer

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